We spent the weekend in Cumbria with my oldest brother Shaun and his lovely girlfriend Jo. They are just such an amazing couple and it made me realise how far down the bad road K and I really have traveled.
Their relationship started pretty much the same time as ours and although they have gone the climbing mountains and canoeing route rather than the marriage and baby route they have maintained a relationship that is based on respect and admiration.
They still sit on the couch together and tactually stroke feet, hands, arms when talking. Hey lets face it they talk to each other and it seems even when they argue they still listen to what the other person is saying.
And the thing that really hit me was how much laughter they share.
It made me feel very sad!
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